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The Battle Within

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 One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all.  One is evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority and ego. The other wolf however, is good.  It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."  The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."

I heard this story years ago and it always seems to stick with me when times seem tough.  Everyone has trials and tribulations to overcome.  Whether it is having a death in the family or getting laid off. We all go through good and bad times. It is the way we overcome our trials that show our true character. Sometimes we allow our weaknesses to be our downfall rather than using them to our advantage. I once heard of a man who got laid off from his job and had a family to support. With no luck on finding a job, the man went to the corner of a busy intersection with a sign that read, "Will work for food".  People who passed tried to give him money but he wouldn't accept it. Instead, he told people he wanted a job. The CEO of a company nearby caught wind of this man's story and hired him the next day proving that no matter what we are going through, it is how you react and overcome your trials that defines who you are and what you will become.

There are two types of people in this world: the ones that "feed their bad wolf" and the ones who "feed their good wolf". It is those who persevere through the tough times that we always seem to find intriguing. We sometimes ask ourselves "what is the secret to happiness?" I don't believe there is a secret. I believe those who don't look past the obstacle to find the light will forever be in the dark; they will never truly be happy with themselves. You must be content with yourself to find true happiness and success in life. We all have two wolves in us; the one we feed will determine who we are.

 

Tough times never last, but tough people do

 

Felicia Cienfuegos, Marketing Coordinator
Unified360

Comments

Couldn't agree more! "I believe those who don't look past the obstacle to find the light will forever be in the dark" powerful words!
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 10:20 AM by Amber Leatherwood
This Blog has inspired me today because this morning I was feeling a little bit down, but reading this has lifted my spirits up!!!!
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 10:26 AM by Lavorgeous Gaines
This was a great story. Got to keep that glass half full! Of course, it really hit home with me.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 10:36 AM by Terry Pierson
I think at different points in our life we all feed the wrong wolf, and we have to stay focused on the point of this story as it's very relevant to so many aspects of our lives. and for those of you who know Felicia, it's pretty evident she's focus on feeding the good wolf. 
 
Great Blog!
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 10:45 AM by Jeff Rothell
Felicia, all I have to say is that you are one fantastic young woman. Thank you for sharing!
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 11:48 AM by Jamie Garner
Amazing. This holds true for humanity as a whole. This is what life if all about. Just lost a job and insurance, had the H1N1 virus for 3 weeks read this and still have hope my dream job is out there and this blog is putting me at 47 years of age in the right mind set. Great job Felicia this blog could not come at a better time we Americans need more of this keep them coming.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 11:53 AM by Kory
Great way to look at things. With such knowledge you have at such a young age only goes to show you will suceed. As for all those out there sneivling pull your pants up, put your boots on and keep on stepping. See who is in your boat if they are weighing you down put them out. Looking forward to your next BLOG! What uplifting advice!! :):)
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 12:15 PM by GiGi
Felicia, very well written. Keep this outlook on life, continue to work hard, and great things are going to happen for you!
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 1:44 PM by Travis Rothell
Very, very insightful. Each of us, at different times, in our lives see the glass as half full, feed the bad wolf, etc. It is the ability to recognize the "error", change direction and persevere that enables us to go forward, learn and, hopefully, cherish those things that really matter whatever the circumstance. Self, family and true friends --
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 2:00 PM by Tony
This is so very true. Ultimately, we make choices and decisions that come with rewards or consequences. What we do with them is a reflection of our lives.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 4:33 PM by Carina
Felicia, you show wisdom well beyond your years. Great blog! Adversity does not build character, it reveals it. Thanks for the inspiration.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 4:52 PM by Matt Hutchins
Thanks for all the awesome feedback.. I love seeing that the thoughts I share can inspire others in their daily struggles as well.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 8:01 PM by Felicia Cienfuegos
No disrespect to any other Unified360 Bloggers, but this is the BEST I have read. Great blog Felicia! The bad wolf is often easier to see than the good... but the good is much stronger. I hope and pray to wake every morning with the good wolf in sight. Its sometimes hard, but I believe we are all given the opportunity.
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 8:18 PM by Jim Barker
Great story! I personally have found that the good wolf loves positive affirmations. One that has filled the appetite of that good wolf is this. Its not mine but its great.  
 
GOD, grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things that I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.  
 
We are all so blessed in so many ways that we have no excuse not to find the good in all areas of our lives. =)
Posted @ Tuesday, November 17, 2009 11:15 PM by Frank Chiuppi
This was a great blog. We need more young people like Felicia. I work in a youth program and they never cease to amaze me with their wisdom and insight. Thank God for young people of today the world they inherit will be so much better because of people like Felicia. And I know that's true because I'm her Nana!!
Posted @ Thursday, November 19, 2009 11:01 AM by Cathy Melvin
Great post! I couldn't agree more. Having recently lost my Grandmother it is easy sometimes for me to feel sorry for myself instead of looking at it from the standpoint that I got to have her in my life for a very long time and she lived to be 91 years young! With everthing going on in the world today we should all feel blessed
Posted @ Tuesday, January 26, 2010 4:47 PM by Andra Lorenz
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